Under what conditions would you hit a girl (non-life-threatning situations)
A physical fight
21.0%
162
Caught her cheating
6.4%
49
I'm a complete Dick and abuse girls physically
7.5%
58
To show who's the MAN
8.8%
68
Never, I'm a true gentleman
56.2%
433
770 votes
Tachii said: alexcampos said: Are you serious? Or not? Because choosing 3 and 4 is pretty much stating domestic violence and borderline rapist qualities. If that's what MEN are, then wow, I guess being a "gutless coward" is a much better choice than being violent for no reason whatsoever. 1 and 2 I understand. If she hit you first, unless you're really fast at running, anyone would be a retard for just taking repeated hits. If you caught her cheating, then tempers flare, and men and women alike could engage in violent behavior. But 3 and 4?Well if you guys notice the poll results, even though we have 60 gutless cowards who don't have any balls, thankfully we have 61 MEN who can stand up to bitches and do what is needed. OK, than we have 86 gutless cowards who either are too much of a pussy or are complete dicks when handling girls in a serious situation. The other 37 men, I salute you guys. |
| I would just push her over and sit on her until she calmed down. |
| If she freaks me out i would even kill her...Girls are so stupid sometimes |
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| would picking her up and shaking her count in beating |
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alexcampos said: Tachii said: alexcampos said: Are you serious? Or not? Because choosing 3 and 4 is pretty much stating domestic violence and borderline rapist qualities. If that's what MEN are, then wow, I guess being a "gutless coward" is a much better choice than being violent for no reason whatsoever. 1 and 2 I understand. If she hit you first, unless you're really fast at running, anyone would be a retard for just taking repeated hits. If you caught her cheating, then tempers flare, and men and women alike could engage in violent behavior. But 3 and 4?Well if you guys notice the poll results, even though we have 60 gutless cowards who don't have any balls, thankfully we have 61 MEN who can stand up to bitches and do what is needed. OK, than we have 86 gutless cowards who either are too much of a pussy or are complete dicks when handling girls in a serious situation. The other 37 men, I salute you guys. Still brainlessly jaded? Oh well, I tried. Stay that way and I'll know who's behind a future string of attacks on females in the south Florida area. |
| never! im a ... |
trigger-happy said: Still brainlessly jaded? Oh well, I tried. Stay that way and I'll know who's behind a future string of attacks on females in the south Florida area. Hilarious, I guess I should tell you that SoFla is full of hispanic women, some of the most submissive women in America, I should know, I've had more than a few of them ;) Whatever you may think about me I don't care, I've never hit any female in my entire life, I'm just answering the question (would you ever hit a girl), under the right circumstances, YES absolutely, not in a blind rage of fury but as a wise decision to break apart a fight, or knock some sense into a girl. YOU'RE being incredible jaded with your sexist views that girls deserve to be on a pedestal and never have anyone knock some sense into them, you don't get to act like a spoiled child just because you wear a skirt. |
CapellaStar said: Where has trigger-happy ever stated that woman needed to be put on a pedestal, that woman shouldn't ever be hit? I believe the only thing she's done is address one of your comments which WAS very jaded and very similar to the one trigger-happy quoted before. YOU however have pretty much proven how jaded you are by your generalizations (and this one about Hispanic women) and calling those who opted out of voting for hitting women to be cowards. Never considering that they don't believe violence is the way to go even after someone has cheated or that if they are big enough they could easily defend themselves and avoid escalating a physical fight. Heaven forbid that anyone be able to look at the options given and think that they maybe able to avoid hitting a girl if they don't want to :/ There are also plenty of "bad guys" or rather more assertive guys who would have chosen the last option as well. I'm not sure what most people's definition of bad guys is but it seems to many there's either one or the other and no in-between. Seriously, you haven't been "just answering the question" in this thread at all. I appreciate this a lot, but I don't think we're gonna get through to him. Figures :| |
CapellaStar said: alexcampos said: trigger-happy said: Still brainlessly jaded? Oh well, I tried. Stay that way and I'll know who's behind a future string of attacks on females in the south Florida area. Hilarious, I guess I should tell you that SoFla is full of hispanic women, some of the most submissive women in America, I should know, I've had more than a few of them ;) Whatever you may think about me I don't care, I've never hit any female in my entire life, I'm just answering the question (would you ever hit a girl), under the right circumstances, YES absolutely, not in a blind rage of fury but as a wise decision to break apart a fight, or knock some sense into a girl. YOU'RE being incredible jaded with your sexist views that girls deserve to be on a pedestal and never have anyone knock some sense into them, you don't get to act like a spoiled child just because you wear a skirt. Where has trigger-happy ever stated that woman needed to be put on a pedestal, that woman shouldn't ever be hit? I believe the only thing she's done is address one of your comments which WAS very jaded and very similar to the one trigger-happy quoted before. YOU however have pretty much proven how jaded you are by your generalizations (and this one about Hispanic women) and calling those who opted out of voting for hitting women to be cowards. Never considering that they don't believe violence is the way to go even after someone has cheated or that if they are big enough they could easily defend themselves and avoid escalating a physical fight. Heaven forbid that anyone be able to look at the options given and think that they maybe able to avoid hitting a girl if they don't want to :/ There are also plenty of "bad guys" or rather more assertive guys who would have chosen the last option as well. I'm not sure what most people's definition of bad guys is but it seems to many there's either one or the other and no in-between. Seriously, you haven't been "just answering the question" in this thread at all. My first sentence was meant to be a Joke (hence the emoticon) The second sentence was 100% serious fact about myself. The las sentence was an opinion I had about trigger-happy, just like she had opinions about me, wow I don't see you telling her anything bad about her comment that I would start assaulting women in SoFla, thanks for proving how biased girls are when defending each other. Oh and BTW, even though you may not like to hear this, my comments are mild compared to some of the obvious trolls that are talking about beating and raping women in this thread, one more thing, I can say whatever I want about Hispanic women, I'm Hispanic and most of the girlfriends I've had including the one I have right now is Hispanic, I think I've seen just how they are. |
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| Personally, being a girl, I totally believe that if a girl hits you then you have every right to hit her back. With the same amount of force, though. Don't go all out and send her across the room unless she did that first. |
CapellaStar said: I'm not going to say I myself am not biased, because I am, however you aren't biased? Men aren't biased either? Also, I never said you couldn't say what you wanted I just said you where generalizing, which you are, regardless if you are Hispanic also or not. Of course I'm biased, everyone is biased about almost every issue, but maybe it's also a cultural thing with me. Like I stated I am Hispanic, born from parents who are VERY TRADITIONAL, many Hispanics believe that the Man is always in charge and that women should submit themselves to the man. In my house my mom is a very stereotypical housewife, she cooks, cleans, and does everything a traditional woman does, my parents had 5 kids including myself. In other words I was raised to believe certain things, however; this doesn't mean that I would ever abuse a female, like I already stated I've never hit any of my girlfriends nor any other female, RESPECT is another big issue with Hispanics. BUT, you gotta understand that for us, we don't like to be disrespected, and in some cases I believe that if a woman steps out of bounds, it's ok to hit her. AGAIN, this has never occurred with me, but it's something that is definitely an option for me, not just because I'm Hispanic and that's the way I was raised, but I firmly believe that women can be held accountable in very rare situations. Also, I said people who "would never hit a girl" are gutless because I believe that most of them are either lying or they really don't know what they would do if they were in the rare situation of hitting a girl. |
alexcampos said: CapellaStar said: I'm not going to say I myself am not biased, because I am, however you aren't biased? Men aren't biased either? Also, I never said you couldn't say what you wanted I just said you where generalizing, which you are, regardless if you are Hispanic also or not. Of course I'm biased, everyone is biased about almost every issue, but maybe it's also a cultural thing with me. Like I stated I am Hispanic, born from parents who are VERY TRADITIONAL, many Hispanics believe that the Man is always in charge and that women should submit themselves to the man. In my house my mom is a very stereotypical housewife, she cooks, cleans, and does everything a traditional woman does, my parents had 5 kids including myself. In other words I was raised to believe certain things, however; this doesn't mean that I would ever abuse a female, like I already stated I've never hit any of my girlfriends nor any other female, RESPECT is another big issue with Hispanics. BUT, you gotta understand that for us, we don't like to be disrespected, and in some cases I believe that if a woman steps out of bounds, it's ok to hit her. AGAIN, this has never occurred with me, but it's something that is definitely an option for me, not just because I'm Hispanic and that's the way I was raised, but I firmly believe that women can be held accountable in very rare situations. Also, I said people who "would never hit a girl" are gutless because I believe that most of them are either lying or they really don't know what they would do if they were in the rare situation of hitting a girl. Okay, let me set the record straight. Earlier you never mentioned your cultural background, you did not point out that your beliefs were rooted in that kind of thing. Instead you made sweeping generalizations about both sexes that appeared to be fueled by some emotional baggage. Things like "I firmly believe that women can be held accountable in very rare situations" and plenty of the other things you said are fine by me. I was originally picking on you because of generalizations you made and in large part because you condone this kind of behavior: " in some cases I believe that if a woman steps out of bounds, it's ok to hit her." I myself was raised under the idea that violent behavior teaches nothing but violence. /soapbox |
| Being a girl, I think that its' perfectly understandable when the woman is a complete bitch with no chances of redeeming herself for doing something evil, or the first one to attack. In other cases, it would be pathetic. As much as I'm a feminist who facepalms at toxic cultural tropes, resorting to violence - especially towards someone who's obviously physically weaker, gender doesn't matter - is just plainly stupid. I beat the shit out of someone only once in my whole life (a guy, my father to be precise. Yes, I'm not kidding. Rage does wonders lol), but it was over something really hardcore. |
moedeaAug 13, 2010 2:32 PM
| I'm not against a person ever hitting a woman, but when I hear this "putting a woman back in her place" trash, I start to understand why there's some taboos around it and such an association with sexism. People who think that a "woman out of line" can be "put in her place and shown who the MAN is" don't deserve to ever date anybody, and can have a woman take a boot to their reproductive organs for all I care. Seriously has to be another troll. Surely. |
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| I don't consider myself a gentleman, but I wouldn't hit a girl for any reason. That is just because I don't feel like it really accomplishes anything. I wouldn't hit another dude for pissing me off, only if he is fighting me then of course I would defend myself. I feel that people think that it is okay to let out your rage through violence and not in the proper environment, such as boxing or MMA or something like that. There's other ways to let out your rage, I know that I have mine, listening to music, taking naps, going for a run, watching anime (not even kidding), and one other I won't directly mention but I'm pretty sure most people will know what it is. |
trigger-happy said: Okay, let me set the record straight. Earlier you never mentioned your cultural background, you did not point out that your beliefs were rooted in that kind of thing. I don't usually start a post by saying, "hi, I'm Alex Campos and I'm Hispanic-American", but maybe I should've mentioned it for saying what I said, don't get me wrong though I don't want people to think that all Hispanics are short tempered bastards that beat on their wives/girl friends, it's just a lot of us are a bit more "traditional" than other Americans. Also, let me say that I am first AMERICAN and second Hispanic, I rarely talk spanish and when it comes to my social life it's pure American, in fact I rarely mention my background to anyone. However, some things just stick to you, sometimes I subconsciously feel some sexist views, but I don't actually act upon these feelings. I have personally seen domestic abuse, and it's never a good thing. |
| If a girl slapped or punched me in the face, i would probably enjoy it. |
alexcampos said: trigger-happy said: Okay, let me set the record straight. Earlier you never mentioned your cultural background, you did not point out that your beliefs were rooted in that kind of thing. I don't usually start a post by saying, "hi, I'm Alex Campos and I'm Hispanic-American", but maybe I should've mentioned it for saying what I said, don't get me wrong though I don't want people to think that all Hispanics are short tempered bastards that beat on their wives/girl friends, it's just a lot of us are a bit more "traditional" than other Americans. Also, let me say that I am first AMERICAN and second Hispanic, I rarely talk spanish and when it comes to my social life it's pure American, in fact I rarely mention my background to anyone. However, some things just stick to you, sometimes I subconsciously feel some sexist views, but I don't actually act upon these feelings. I have personally seen domestic abuse, and it's never a good thing. I didn't want it to seem like I was saying that you should have talked about ethnicity or anything, I just wanted to say that I acknowledge your explanation. I get what you're saying. To me, race doesn't have anything to do with this, but I understand why ethnic backgrounds would effect your treatment of either sex. However, that's no justification for using force to teach a lesson to anyone. That's all I wanted to say. |
| I would never hit a girl. I believe that there are better ways to solve a problem then by violence. I'm a very passive person to being with anyways. I prefer reasoning and diplomacy to fighting and hitting someone. |
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| I would stray away from it as much as possible from actually hitting a girl, but if it does get to out of control i would end it quickly. |
| lol, silly xly, you can't reason with women =/ |
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| Deleted a few pages of off-topic posts and a number of trivial replies. The thread will be locked and people will be banned if they continue trying to derail it, the topic is fairly simple, even if stupid. It shouldn't be difficult to stay on topic. |
| never! you must be an ultimate dickhead if you hit a girl. |
| I've got no reason to hit a girl until she hits me. If that's the case, I'll gladly beat her up in every single way ^_^ |
| No, never. Unless it was a huge woman and she was kicking my ass. But never out of anger. |
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| my woman hits me all the time for: -leaving the toilet seat up -not being 'delicate' on her time of month -not complimenting her when she tries on a pair of jeans(although she does look good in hot pants) -getting busted when looking at other women(hey I'm a guy) -making whoopee when we're under covers -asking for sex when she's dead tired and I'm drunk as a skunk well most of those are non-life threatening, and she pretty much hits me for it that I've started to get used to the physical abuse(maybe my maso awakening)....but I'm GAR and if I can take hits from big Arnie-like bouncers, then I can definitely take a few blows from a woman the only times I'll go stone-cold is if the opposite sex had a gun or a knife, but that'd be defeating this threads purpose |
| she's free game if she leaves the kitchen |
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| Are we talking bitch-slaps or real fist-pumps here? If just a bitch slap then yes, I could do it, I wouldn't feel proud of myself but I could do it. If we are talking fists then no, I wouldn't hit a girl unless it is needed for my survival. |
| No. If I get angered I just something else that is close by (I broke a finger once punching a wall with all I had), but I wouldn't hit a woman even if she deserves it. |
| Never, you aren't a man if you think hitting a woman is right. |
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BaKaCoupLe said: my woman hits me all the time for: -not being 'delicate' on her time of month You should keep your distance at that time, if possible don't even speak to her. I've had some bad experiences with lady friends at that time some were quite crazy but one time I almost got beaten with a broom by one of them and I wasn't even saying anything at all, I just found her at the very wrong time. |
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| Never did and I think I wouldn't in the future. |
Hoppy said: BaKaCoupLe said: my woman hits me all the time for: -not being 'delicate' on her time of month You should keep your distance at that time, if possible don't even speak to her. I've had some bad experiences with lady friends at that time some were quite crazy but one time I almost got beaten with a broom by one of them and I wasn't even saying anything at all, I just found her at the very wrong time. i don't know what it is with women going through their monthlies but I can tell you my girl is like a rabid dog if i ain't delicate...usually i end up hanging with mates when its around her time as the last time i asked if she had her 'rags' she threw an ironing board at me...but hey, that's love yeah |
BaKaCoupLe said: Hoppy said: BaKaCoupLe said: my woman hits me all the time for: -not being 'delicate' on her time of month You should keep your distance at that time, if possible don't even speak to her. I've had some bad experiences with lady friends at that time some were quite crazy but one time I almost got beaten with a broom by one of them and I wasn't even saying anything at all, I just found her at the very wrong time. i don't know what it is with women going through their monthlies but I can tell you my girl is like a rabid dog if i ain't delicate...usually i end up hanging with mates when its around her time as the last time i asked if she had her 'rags' she threw an ironing board at me...but hey, that's love yeah Hahah, I know what you mean. I know a girl who usually like to torture me in a very playful way (pulling hairs off of my legs seems to be a favorite hobby of her's) but on her time of month she has beaten the shit out of me many times. I've never hit her back though. |
| instead of guys hitting girls, i'd rather see girl on girl...now that's sexy and then we have the ugly: and then we just have the WTF's |
ScryptAug 14, 2010 10:09 PM
| If women believe in equality they better be ready to take a smack in the face if they hit someone.. even if its a man. I'm not gonna go and swing away at a woman first though.. I wouldn't do it to a man either. As brawling like apes solves nothing. |
Free_Candy said: Yeah under no conditions should a men hit a women, unless it's a playful thing. I mean hitting women is like picking fights with people that's obviously weaker than you, that's just really coward like. Yeah, if she's trying to stab you, you should stand there and take it. In fact you should be a gentleman and help her out. -_- By no means would I hit a female just to hit her, but this whole idea that a man should take whatever they do has gotten ridiculous. |
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| there's a difference between a woman who'll punch you to a woman who actually has a knife or gun....i don't think anyone in their right mind won't take for cover if the woman was the latter but a woman who'll just punch is no reason to hit her back as(call me sexist when i say this) most women who do punch, punch like a girl(no pun intended) for any guy to revel over having punched a girl out is beneath themselves and should seek serious help |
| i hit women all the time......... no i dont >.< im such a bad liar lol nah, but a woman shouldnt ever punch a man though. thats just asking for trouble. some men will get steamed and hit back b/c that's just not something you can do and get away with. i think it's all about respect. no matter what gender |
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BaKaCoupLe said: there's a difference between a woman who'll punch you to a woman who actually has a knife or gun....i don't think anyone in their right mind won't take for cover if the woman was the latter but a woman who'll just punch is no reason to hit her back as(call me sexist when i say this) most women who do punch, punch like a girl(no pun intended) for any guy to revel over having punched a girl out is beneath themselves and should seek serious help He did say under no circumstance. I'm wondering how many people that say they'd never hit a female for any reason are 20 and under. |
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| Seriously, there is a tsundere-like girl in my class who loves to hit me. If I feel like it, I just hit her back and everyone asks me why I do that. The only thing I say is: It won't hurt her, I'm not 'that' strong. |
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| if she hit me in the nads |
| If the girl was going to kill me xD |
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